Congratulations to your family during this wonderful
time! As you ask to have your child Baptized into the Body of Christ, we at
St. John the Evangelist parish, rejoice with you. We hope that your
experience in preparing for your child’s Baptism will reaffirm your Baptism
and commitment to your faith.
In preparing for your child’s Baptism, attendance at
the following meetings is required:
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A Baptism Preparation Meeting
with other families from
the parish also preparing for Baptism. This meeting is an opportunity for
you to share your decision with others and discuss the impact it will have
on your family, now and in the future. These normally meet the first Sunday
of each month, 12:30 to 1:30 PM in Room 28 at the Oakland Mills Interfaith
Center.
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Baptism and You:
This class addresses the theology of
Baptism and the symbols that express that theology as well as the ceremony
and meaning behind each element of the ritual. At least one parent must
attend; Godparents are encouraged to attend as well. This class normally
meets the last Wednesday of each month, 7:30 to 8:30 PM in room 13/14 at the
Wilde Lake Interfaith Center.
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A Personal Meeting:
Normally about a 30 minute meeting
with the priest or deacon who will preside at the Baptism. This is an
opportunity to get to know your family individually, to assist you in
scheduling your child’s Baptism, to answer any questions you might have, and
to prepare registration documentation.
The following clergy personnel from the parish are
available to perform Baptisms. You may call them directly to set up the
date of the Baptism and a time to meet with them. Clergy from outside are
welcome to perform the Baptism as well. We will need a letter from their
diocese or religious order stating that they are a priest or deacon and have
the faculties to perform a Baptism. Here is contact information for clergy
from St. John:
Msgr. Tillman: 410 964-1425 Deacon
Benjamin: 410 730-1543
Fr. Buening: 410 964-1437
Deacon Gifford: 410 964-1431
Padre Antonio: 410 964-1432
Questions You May Have...
What is Baptism?
“Baptism
is the basis of the whole Christian life, the gateway to life in the
Spirit.” (Catechism of the Catholic Church.) It is the first of three
Sacraments of Initiation, the other two being Confirmation and the Holy
Eucharist. Through Baptism, as with the other six Sacraments, we encounter
the Living Christ in his passage from death to new life. By this encounter,
we are freed from the power of sin and death, become members of Christ’s
Body, the Church, and so rise to new life and to a new way of living.
When should we have our baby baptized?
We
encourage parents to present their children for Baptism as soon as is
reasonably possible after their birth. Therefore, it is a good idea to
contact the parish prior to the baby’s birth so that Baptism can be
scheduled in a timely fashion. However, we also realize that situations in
life don’t always allow for Baptism to happen shortly after the birth of a
child, and we will welcome children or adults of any age who want to be
baptized. Baptisms are celebrated at the Masses for the Lord’s Day on the
weekends and/or in small groups on Sunday afternoons, once a month.
Why do we celebrate some Baptisms during Mass?
Baptism
welcomes us into the Body of Christ, the Church. By water and the Holy
Spirit we become the children of God. Baptism is not a private act but a
public expression of, and participation in, the Church’s faith. The
celebration of Baptism, therefore, calls for the active participation of the
community. The whole community welcomes the child and promises our love and
support as a tangible expression of God’s love and goodness. Because Sunday
is the weekly celebration of Jesus’ death and resurrection, by which we have
new life, celebrating Baptism at one of the Lord’s Day Masses, when the
parish community gathers for worship, indicates the connection between the
Church, the Eucharist and this newborn member of the Church and your family.
It also reminds us that the journey of faith will lead your baptized child,
one day, to join you and the larger community at the table of the Lord for
the Eucharist. At the Eucharist, all Catholics are nourished by the Word of
God and Christ’s Body and Blood, so that we can be better witnesses of God’s
love to all people. The communal nature of Baptism calls for the celebration
of Sacrament within Mass or in small gatherings with other families. Due to
the large number of Baptisms here at Our Lady’s, we have both small group
celebrations once a month and Baptisms during many Masses for the Lord’s
Day.
Who can be godparents?
Godparents
should be faithful people who are baptized and confirmed in the Catholic
Church. Church law requires that at least one godparent is a full member of
the Catholic Church. It is possible for the second godparent to be a member
of another Christian Church. Our tradition is one godmother and one
godfather. If you have questions regarding godparents, please speak to
Rosemary Seibold. When choosing godparents, it is important to consider the
responsibility of a godparent, namely, people who will support the parents
in bringing this child up in the Catholic Faith and who will be a good role
model for this child.
The Day of the Baptism
Please plan to
arrive at least 15 minutes before the time the service is supposed to begin.
The first of two pews, reserved for your family, will be marked with your
child’s name. A team member will lead you to the sacristy to lay out the
baby’s garments. Baptisms usually begin promptly at the designated time.
Can we use cameras and videos at Baptism?
Cameras and
videos are allowed. However, the people taking photographs are asked to be
courteous and not obscure the view of others. The priest will be available
after the ceremony for additional pictures.